当你在开会时,就像以前我们在同一个空间里做那种事情时,你会“读懂房间”。这是我们的天性。你会扫视房间,被动地关注细节,比如,人们感觉如何?今天这里的气氛怎么样?大家的想法一致吗?这是很自然的。但在视频会议上呢?你试着阅读25个房间。你。这是你的天性。 And you’re trying to do this while, ironically, ignoring the room you are literally in. That is not how perception works, which is the process through which we attach meaning to our sensory input in order to understand the social world. You’re trying to read all the rooms up on that screen, while ignoring the sensory information coming at you from within the room in which you are physically located, and that’s before you even engage with anybody. Speaking of the rest of the people:
2.人际关系强度
当你在《Normal World bc》的房间里时,你不会试图在一个小时内与25个人保持持续的眼神交流。就个人而言,你可以在一个共享空间的群体中,完全投入、专注和当下,但你仍然不能同时与每一个人保持眼神接触。在视频会议中,即使低头看相关文件也会被认为是你在退出会议,不再积极倾听,或者其他一些迹象被认为是你缺乏努力。